Yeah, that is sort of what I thought too. If you feel like that - don't go. I am sparing myself happy-couple-double- or tripple meetings with friends e.g. It makes me feel sad (backwards) and anxious and panicking (forwards). In short: NOT GOOD. And the thumb rule for me: as long as I am not gonna learn anything from it: Avoid situations that will make you feel bad !!! There is enough stuff gonna happen that will make me feel bad anyways, I don't have to search for it actively, right ?!
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Date: 2003-06-20 11:25 pm (UTC)I am sparing myself happy-couple-double- or tripple meetings with friends e.g.
It makes me feel sad (backwards) and anxious and panicking (forwards). In short: NOT GOOD. And the thumb rule for me: as long as I am not gonna learn anything from it: Avoid situations that will make you feel bad !!! There is enough stuff gonna happen that will make me feel bad anyways, I don't have to search for it actively, right ?!