You know, I have thought a lot about the same things that you wonder about. One thing that I'm sure about is, that it's not you. I see so many people around me get relationships who.. well.. frankly put, don't deserve it. Who behave like total b*stards. Or very 'ugly' people. It's not us.
Maybe it is us, in the way that we are at the wrong place, the wrong time. We meet the wrong people, who we don't totally mesh with socially. Everyone is unique- but not that unique. There are always people who we click with. The difficult part is finding them. And for you as a straight person it's always less hard than for me, and even *I* got some action last year (not a lot, but a little bit. ;) ). I think you just need to come across as independent to be attractive; experienced to experience.. You needn't be it. Just act like it. I think that'll help.
Maybe you should put your add on a few dating sites, meet people that way, no pressure. Perhaps that'll help get your self worth in order. Get a theme-tune :)
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Maybe it is us, in the way that we are at the wrong place, the wrong time. We meet the wrong people, who we don't totally mesh with socially. Everyone is unique- but not that unique. There are always people who we click with. The difficult part is finding them. And for you as a straight person it's always less hard than for me, and even *I* got some action last year (not a lot, but a little bit. ;) ). I think you just need to come across as independent to be attractive; experienced to experience.. You needn't be it. Just act like it. I think that'll help.
Maybe you should put your add on a few dating sites, meet people that way, no pressure. Perhaps that'll help get your self worth in order. Get a theme-tune :)